Jesus is saying that to willfully and verbally deny Him before men is the UnpardonableSin.
Why is believing on Jesus and confessing Him before men so important? -> Because Jesus is `God`.
No one can be accepted by `God` who has rejected Him.
Jesus states that a person`s words against Him requires Him to speak against them to His HolySpiritFather.
What does that mean? -> It means that His HolySpirit will not dispense Grace to the denier and so leave them to inevitable destruction.
If Jesus is not a person`s advocate before His HolySpirit they are condemned to the LakeOfFire Mat 12:32.
Faithfulness is a characteristic of our LordJesusChrist. If faithfulness is not a part of a person`s character they will deny Him eventually.
A person`s denial of Him will require His denial of them.
See DenyingJesus for clarity on how unbelievers of different levels DenyJesus.